Jessica_min *-*

 

遗憾  许美静

别再说是谁的错
让一切成灰
除非放下心中的负累
一切难以挽回
你总爱让往事跟随
怕过去白费
你总以为要体会人生
就要多爱几回
与其让你在我怀中枯萎
宁愿你犯错后悔
让你飞向梦中的世界
留我独自伤悲
与其让你在我爱中憔悴
宁愿你受伤流泪
莫非要你尝尽了苦悲
才懂真情可贵



别再说是谁的错
让一切成灰
除非放下心中的负累
一切难以挽回
你总爱让往事跟随
怕过去白费
你总以为要体会人生
就要多爱几回
与其让你在我怀中枯萎
宁愿你犯错后悔
让你飞向梦中的世界
留我独自伤悲
与其让你在我爱中憔悴
宁愿你受伤流泪
莫非要你尝尽了苦悲
才懂真情可贵
与其让你在我怀中枯萎
宁愿你犯错后悔
让你飞向梦中的世界
留我独自伤悲
与其让你在我爱中憔悴
宁愿你受伤流泪
莫非要你尝尽了苦悲
才懂真情可贵
莫非要你尝尽了苦悲
才懂真情可贵
才懂真情可贵

 

For my..TBL

Hope u can understand me oneday, I still miss the time when I am with u... I ll cherish everything, every single day we've been through, and I ll never forget

nothing has change...

if u really want me to be happy, just let me know u ll be better, be happy, and have a wonderful life... 

In Homer’s poetry, every hero has a trait. Achilles is angry. Odysseus is cunning. And so was born one picture of character and conduct.

In this view, what you might call the philosopher’s view, each of us has certain ingrained character traits. An honest person will be honest most of the time. A compassionate person will be compassionate.

These traits, as they say, go all the way down. They shape who we are, what we choose to do and whom we befriend. Our job is to find out what traits of character we need to become virtuous.

But, as Kwame Anthony Appiah, a Princeton philosopher, notes in his book “Experiments in Ethics,” this philosopher’s view of morality is now being challenged by a psychologist’s view. According to the psychologist’s view, individuals don’t have one thing called character.

The psychologists say this because a century’s worth of experiments suggests that people’s actual behavior is not driven by permanent traits that apply from one context to another. Students who are routinely dishonest at home are not routinely dishonest at school. People who are courageous at work can be cowardly at church. People who behave kindly on a sunny day may behave callously the next day when it is cloudy and they are feeling glum. Behavior does not exhibit what the psychologists call “cross-situational stability.”

The psychologists thus tend to gravitate toward a different view of conduct. In this view, people don’t have one permanent thing called character. We each have a multiplicity of tendencies inside, which are activated by this or that context. As Paul Bloom of Yale put it in an essay for The Atlantic last year, we are a community of competing selves. These different selves “are continually popping in and out of existence. They have different desires, and they fight for control — bargaining with, deceiving, and plotting against one another.”

The philosopher’s view is shaped like a funnel. At the bottom, there is a narrow thing called character. And at the top, the wide ways it expresses itself. The psychologist’s view is shaped like an upside-down funnel. At the bottom, there is a wide variety of unconscious tendencies that get aroused by different situations. At the top, there is the narrow story we tell about ourselves to give coherence to life.

Personally, I agree with psychologist, no one can act a specific charater all the way down. Human being can easily change according to various situations.

什么时候可以结束这种状况，我为什么要考虑这么多！！！自私一些不可以吗？

为什么不能做我喜欢的事...心li真正想要的．．．

原来长大是件很讨厌的事情！！！　

I like msn space, it's my own place

I can keep recording every single minute that I want to remember...

lol:)  "sweet..."  no more words....  

 

又发烧感冒了。。。 不知道这次回来怎么这样。。 太讨厌了！！！

That's all because of you, I don't have time to do excercise~~

今天看到苗苗好开心：）我又多了一个可爱的侄女：）现在一共三个了！做两个小姨，一个姑姑的感觉真真真真真真好！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！

好开心哈：）哥哥。。。 你这会有福气了：）。。。

话说回来。。。我的宝贝会长张什么样子呢。。。：）

是卷发的还是，直头发的。。

蓝眼睛，还是黑眼睛？？：）

 

好难选择。。。

但，一定会像我：）lol  hehe:)

 

... Don't know why...

sometimes I just miss the time...

when I am alone...

when I can enjoy my music...

enjoy the atmosphere...

Xintairuan.... remind me of my first time went to skating hall.... I am... Grade 5. Xuyuming?... the guy lives down stairs of my grandparents.

Aiqing(GFC)... haiyan... ur mp3 is very sucks, but the songs in it always being the only thing that make me keep working hard for the tests. Miss you so much....

Na nian xia tian ning jing de hai....Xiexin... that must be the very first time you tell me ur little secret:) .... miss you!

Shi wo bu ke ai... Xiaofeng... that song keep playing for 10 times... that afternoon.... I was just laying on the bed... after New Oriental devil winter Classes.... Miss everything we were been through together.... especially we were like 18....Miss you so much!!!

Wu suo wei... Gongyun...Nice lyrics, melody, and the mood they sing it.... wu suo wei~~ Thank you for being my wonderful deskmate in the last year of my junior high.  

Wake me up when september ends. Ji chen ye....a girl lives in the next dorm of mine. Thanks for introducing me many wonderful rock music... thank you for sharing my stories and joy.

Yong... yuwei... aiyi... still remember we brush teeth together... we laugh together in the balcany... wonderful high school time...

Jian dan ai/ invisible man... He sheng.... Second  yr of jonior high school.... you always walk in the tempo of this song....Love the style of ur clothes....like the way you look at us...

I can't cry... wow... that was back in middle school.... Yangguang...

Love story/ Ba xin la jin...Toni...

Ru guo de shi.... Zengtao.... Miss you....just wondering where you up to recently.... hope you still have a wonderful future with ur belove guy....

Hai you wo----Lao da... Lao da... still remember the moment we look at the mirror at the same time.... you are so cute...miss you...

Zhi lai zhi wang....   remember we talk in the flower park in high school? remeber we always laugh together, angry about each other? lol.... where are you now.... can't find you... miss you.... 

Ai shang wei lai de ni... long yi... wish you happy...

Love letters.... Josh.... where are you recently~  wish ur japanese hezhang still cute in front of you~~~

Honey... Licheng.... Love you see you happy face when you get dress and sing her lovely songs...

Lukou.... Zhaojing.... love the chat time after lights off in the dorm... miss sharing secrets with each other...

Wo hen xiang ai ta... Li zong ze... you like twins... lol:) Miss the way we chat...always makes me embarrass... always lmao after we talk... miss the time when we play badminton... you are my best friend in high school....

Qin ai de na bu shi ai qing.... Liu wen...... remember, you finally will make it once you work hard...nice to hear good news from you... and understand you sometimes... still remember those nights I help you correct ur writing... ur are so funny....

 

 

 

    

      

 

   

Auguest 6... :) !!!!!! nino~~~:)...lmao

Sept. 4.... I ll remember it all:) btw went to the long beach island, Jersey, really enjoy it~~~

Sept. 5 Accept God in my heart....

9. 11 interviewed and get my first professional intern at Walter Wickiser Art
Gallery in Chelsea, thanks 甜不辣.. thanks Walter~ thanks nino,meme~start working on Sept, 28th, 20000009~~~~

 

 

 

LOL. Time flies.

We face it with smile.. 

How colorful it is with all kind of tastes.   

I never lose my faith, never get lost to my destination.

2nd yr, a year I got to make many things, many important decisions in my life.

 

24, I love it=) I love to be challenged=)

Looking backward to the 1st, I've done most of my goals.

Even some of them are not perfect, but I did it.

In the following year, I will:

 

1. Do well in my current partimes.

2. Get good grades in school.

3. Get an intern in WPP or Omnicom Groups, or any other PR company, especially in this winter vacation or the coming spring!

4. Get a job at one of the companies of W or O

5. Looking for PHD schools, informations and application requirements.

6. Travel with my beloved Mom&Dad after graduation

Boston, Chicago, D.C. L.A. San Francisco, Seatle, and FL....lol

 

Ill make it with my very hardwork!

 

有时候真的觉得对一些事情力不从心。。。

明明自己已经努力去为别人做好，但是别人却体会不到。

有时候真的觉得独立是个很开心的事情。想你，郝爽．．．　海燕，原来好朋友真的一辈子里很难遇到．．

 

 

Got to eat them all.......Aggressively